From the First Day of the Week to the Other Six - Jason Brown

From the First Day of the Week to the Other Six - Jason Brown

On the first day of the week, I was reminded of who Jesus is.  I was challenged to come expectantly to corporate worship.  I was encouraged to be a witness throughout the week.  Then Monday came.

But Monday morning was great!  I had an early morning coffee with Jon.  I met Jon at the Starbucks just down the street.  One day we were putting cream in our coffee at the same time and I asked, “How are you?”  Jon actually answered the question and I took the time to listen.  He told me he wasn’t doing well and that he was just about to get in his car and drive to a job he hated.   I told him I was sorry to hear that.  He then asked how I was doing.  I can’t remember my answer.

 I saw him the following week, chatted with him in the line for coffee and asked whether he wanted to get together some time.  He said, “Sure.”  I said, “Well what about next week on Monday?”  He said, “Sure.” 

So we got together this morning.  I spent an hour and a half asking Jon about his life and his thoughts about church.  To be honest, his interactions with Christians have not been positive.  Most of the Christians he’s met have been interested in converting, rather than loving him.  He’s also had a tough life.  I listened 95% of the time.  Eventually, both of us had to get to work.  I walked him out to his car.  He thanked me for listening.   He said, “The next time we get together, you can share your story.”  I told him I’d appreciate that.

Before he got into his car he told me that if I had tried to evangelize him he would have gotten up and left.  I told him that what we were doing was my model of evangelism.  I think it surprised him.  I told Jon that I woke up that morning and prayed God would use me to bless him.  I also said that I expected God to speak to me through him (Jon).   He said, “Thank you.”   It was a great morning. 

What about you?  What stories do you have to share?  What questions do you have about my story or about what it means to be a witness?  I look forward to reading your posts.

4 comments (Add your own)

1. EB wrote:
Wow, when was the last time someone took the time to listen to you tell your story and possessed the patience, discipline and kindness to let you share 95% of the conversation? What a gift! Make me a friend and a disciple like that.

Mon, June 2, 2008 @ 7:58 PM

2. susan wrote:
You make it seem so simple Jason. I believe that it is that simple. Simple but not easy. It means I need to be intentional with my time. Make those dates for coffee. That I can simply pray Lord help me to be a blessing to _________ !

Wed, June 4, 2008 @ 6:02 PM

3. Greg Wallace Dolmage wrote:
I was in Iowa all weekend and came back on Tuesday. On the flight home, I was perfectly content with not talking to anyone. I was watching a movie on my laptop and frankly enjoyed not interacting with anyone. Things were going smoothly until the beverage cart passed by. The flight attendant was feeling particularly generous with her stockpile of ice. With ice nearly falling out of my cup, I comment to the guy next to me, "Don't you hate how stingy these airlines are with the ice," in my classic sarcastic style. It achieved the desired affect of a laugh, but before I knew it, I was in a full on conversation with this young man named Austin.

Turns out that Austin had recently graduated from a christian college in Texas and was quite disillusioned with most of popular Christianity. He went on to share how he was frustrated with churches who were willing to spend millions and millions of dollars on a fancy sanctuary when the money could be used to help so many different people. Eventually, through strategic questioning, he began to share about where he was at in his personal faith. It seemed like had been waiting to share these things.

When we landed, I could hear him talking on the phone and it sounded like his trip to Hawaii might be in jeopardy due to the woes of flying "stand-by." I quickly wrote my number down and told him that if he needed a place to stay that night that he could call me. He was a bit overwhelmed by this. Next thing I know he is scrambling through his backpack to produce a gift card to a Christian Bookstore. I tried to refuse, but he insisted. "You're going to seminary. You'll probably get better use out of it then I will." He never ended up calling, but he said he appreciated our time. Hopefully I was able to be an example of the kind of Christianity that Jesus is talking about. Genuine and honest as opposed to hypocritical and greedy. I hope.

Thu, June 5, 2008 @ 10:43 AM

4. JEFF HOGAN wrote:
UNFORTUNATELY, I THINK MOST PEOPLE HAVE HAD A NEGATIVE EXPERIENCE WITH CHRISTIANS. PART OF THE PROBLEM IS THAT WE AS CHRISTIANS ARE SINFUL, AND PEOPLE OUTSIDE THE CHURCH EXPECT US TO BE BLAMELESS. SOMETIMES THE PEOPLE ARE JUST NOT READY TO RECEIVE ANYTHING ABOUT CHRIST. SOME CHRISTIANS GENUINELY WANT TO BRING PEOPLE TO CHRIST BUT HAVE NOT BEEN TRAINED IN THE BEST WAY TO DO THAT. THERE ARE SO MANY VARIABLES AT WORK, AND SATAN IS ALWAYS THERE WAITING TO RUIN THE MOMENT. I THINK THAT MOST PEOPLE WOULD RESPOND WELL TO SOMEONE LISTENING TO THEM. IN A SOCIETY THAT IS SO BUSY, IT IS RARE TO FIND SOMEONE WHEN CAN LAY OUT OUR TROUBLES TO, THAT WILL NOT JUDGE US. PEOPLE JUST WANT TO BE HEARD AND VALUED FOR WHO THEY ARE. BY THE WAY MEN, LISTENING WORKS REALLY WELL FOR YOUR WIVES TOO.

Mon, June 9, 2008 @ 7:19 PM

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